Nowadays I don’t watch movie leisurely so much as I am busy watching videos, reading books and researches on health and wellness topics.
Since I watched one movie the other night, I am reflecting some of the movies that impacted my teenage time. 🙂
One of my favorite movie for sexy, romantic theme is 9½ Weeks with Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke.
Screenplay by Zalman King.
I got obsessed by his movies(sexy, romantic films) and watched almost all…when I was a teenager(I wasn’t supposed to watch those adult movies…though haha).
Like Red Shoe Diary series, Wild Orchid series were my favorites. 🙂
I read erotic novels and watch erotic movies a lot…haha 🙂 Since I was maybe…11 or 12 years old? Or younger?
I had uncles who had books and somehow I was reading…them and got so hot.
Anyway, when I watched this 9½ Weeks movie, the food play scene was so hot.
Now re-watching this Finger food clip…I think about foods!
All those foods…how it would be afterwards…haha(too realistic now!!!)
Like anti nutrient, coloring…of food…etc haha! Funny! 🙂
And ice scene was hot too!
I acted out these scenes as they were on my bucket list to try with my client when I first started escort a few years ago.
Whip cream spray, honey, cherries…Getting fed(hand fed or mouth fed) to sweet cherries were so nice and sensual. And so tasty! Import thing is the cherries should be really good fresh sweet delicious! 🙂
By the way one funny thing was my client was lactose intolerant so he had to go to bathrooms a lot afterwards! Haha!
I told him my fantasies and he made it happen for me despite of his lactose intolerant situation haha. 🙂
One thing I also got advice was it’s not good to spray sweet stuff to woman’s private area as it is not good(pH balance, sugar loving bacteria related concern I guess…I heard about this from woman…who did that and got some unpleasant situation afterwards. Haha)
Recently I played whip cream spray on my client as he had it!!! He went shopping and bought nice condoms(similar to the kind I like), wine and full cream whip cream with no artificial stuff or added something! 🙂
I didn’t expect that and wanted to play with it! Also I love these day full fat cream stuff-it’s totally ketogenic food!!!!! Haha
Higher fat then carb! 🙂
Another thing I wanted was being tied up and blind folded and teased, orgasm denial(kind of) and I beg for it when I can’t take any longer. When I want to be penetrated, then I beg him to do me. 😉
I don’t get to do this ALL THE TIME. It takes special prep and time and thought into it. 🙂
My first blindfold and being tied up fantasy was fulfilled by my first escort client-the CEO. 🙂
Originally my regular therapeutic massage client. 🙂
We would talk about sex life as our common interests were sex and we couldn’t really talk about sex with anyone…in Korea.
Not everyone is open and love sex as much as we did.
So we had a lot to chat during massage sessions and we felt we understand each other…feel we have special thing in common.
Since he introduced me into escort life by accident(?) because of my soccer player situation(I posted on the blog)…he became my regular client and he fulfilled my fantasy of being tied up and blindfolded in the beginning stage of my escort life.
He researched love hotels in Seoul to find the kind of bed that he could tie 4 ties(2 hands, 2 legs).
Framed bed. 🙂 Haha
That was the most challenging part. Finding nice upscale love hotel with framed bed he could book in advance for our special fantasy fulfilling time!
My first experience was so hot!
I took lots of photos of that love hotel with nice framed bed with the ties…around the bed.
The love hotel was so pretty and nice. 🙂
I have to find those files…I should go through my external hard drive! I would love to find pictures of that time.
I tried to locate pictures from that time the other night briefly but couldn’t find them yet. Hopefully I have them somewhere!
Anyway~back to fantasy…and food play again…
When I was with oral expert lover, I discovered new food play item from him!
He was a Costco user so he had frozen mango and strawberries…he would blend them and feed the slush/icy desert from his mouth to mine while I was laying down blindfolded. I didn’t expect it when this happened.
The sensation of cold icy smooth texture with sweet taste was soooooooo gooooood.
So pleasant taste and sensations as I had a sweet tooth at that time.
Still I like sweet stuff but not as bad like before after living ketogenic lifestyle. 🙂
Here is sexy dance scene from 9 1/2 Weeks movie.
And this is trailer.
This movie, Wild Orchid…Red Shoe Diary series…were my teenage time favorite sensual movies.
And recently…I liked 50 Shades of Gray movies. 🙂
So hot actor and actress. So pleasant to watch the film! Haha
I haven’t watched the latest one yet.
Somehow google service didn’t recognize me as adult when I went through identity process they put me through online before letting me pay online to watch on youtube movie service.
When I am in the mood for watching the film with leisure feeling(not studying mode), I will watch it.
Writing this kind of blog post is kind of therapeutic…self expression…letting things out… 🙂
Thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts(privately by email or comment form).
I really appreciate it. 🙂
P.S. What’s your fantasy or bucket-list in terms of bedroom, sex…? 🙂
One of my bucket list is doing one night stand from night club(dance club). Haha
I haven’t done that kind of one night stand in my life. I am too controlled style…choosing who I want in advance…by posting ad and selecting.
I feel I should be doing something out of my comfort zone(doing escort is kind of safe…thing to me compared to meeting random person from dance club and have sex!!!) and something spontaneous…random…style…in a way…to give it a chance…not always control and choose what kind of person I meet or have sex in advance…and know things in advance…
Share with me yours. :)))
Something you wanted to try…or want…
I was watching this video of Dan Savage on Awesome Fest. He is gay and has been doing 25 years of love, sex, dating advice for straight people(and maybe gay too). I loved his advice on being so open and communicative!
I always was meeting people through online and I was very open and communicative about what I wanted and who I wanted.
Also I always could find someone who was compatible with me…so my sex life was great.
Because I only met great lovers through long descriptions and thorough email communications.
Gay people communicate so openly and not beating around bushes like many straight people(couple, husband and wife) do.
I know one of my Korean female friend never gave blow job to her husband although she’s amazing at it.
She fears he would think she slept with many men or so experienced…what a tragedy that is…
Many Korean married couples don’t say what they want…wish…deep inside…I guess many people in general don’t express what they want…due to sexual taboo culture…
I really appreciated his advice and bold, straightforward style talk! 🙂 I totally resonate with him. I had some gay friends and used to hang out a lot before they all left Korea. 🙂 Anyway! Hope you enjoy this talk and learn something useful!